Indecision can often sets in when choosing a life partner especially if you are the type that are surrounded with plenty of options.
But no matter what, always try as much as possible to choose wisely so that you won’t just end up enduring the marriage rather than enjoying it.
Women on one hand often make mistakes of rushing into marriage as a result of loneliness, peer pressure, financial problems among others. Not until they are face with regrets, while they wished they had not married to the wrong person.
So here are the six mistakes Nigerian women often make when choosing a husband.
1. Choosing a man fo his physical appearance.
Nowadays, most women wants to get married to a tall, dark and handsome man, forgetting that beauty do fade away. I’m not saying here that you shouldn’t look for someone who has good looks, the good looks just have to be accompanied with good heart.
2. Marrying for Money.
Infact, most women out there wants to get married to someone that is rich, someone that can take care of them and their entire family. No doubt, money is good and sure everyone wants to live a good life, but marrying someone because of the money alone can cause more problems in future that you ever expected.
3. Marrying Out Of Pity.
Marrying someone all because of sympathy or out of pity is like building a house on a bad foundation. This kind of relationship often doesn’t work out at the very end. Do not ever think you are helping someone by marrying them. Why sympathize with someone to the point of giving away your happiness?
4. Marrying Out Of Pressure.
Some women often fall into this category especially when they are at the age of their 30s and 40s. This kind of women often becomes desperate and would settle for any man that comes their way. Marrying out of being desperate often proves disastrous.
5. Marrying to Please your Family and Friends.
This is similar to marrying out of desperation but with a little difference. Most women often marry as a result of pressure from their family members. No matter what do not let anyone choose a life partner for you because you want to please them because when all the trouble starts, they won’t be there to help you out, you will certainly bear all the burden alone. Also do not compare yourself with friends when choosing a life partner.
6. Marrying for S*x.
You decided to marry a man because he is very good in bed and sure knows how to satisfy every of your s*xual needs. What if something happens along the line and he failed to meet those needs, will you call it quit or start to cheat on him?
So my dear, whatever the case may be, always try to take your time and choose your partner wisely as there is someone out there for every one.