I don’t see any reason a wife should deny her husband sex. Nowadays, they develop one reason or the other not to engage in sex with their husband.
If eventually a wife engage in such act, then these are 4 things you must KNOW:
1. If you are denying your husband sex, you are missing out on what God has for you sexually.
Sexual pleasure is God’s idea for both the wife and the husband. Orgasm, foreplay, passion; all these elements are God’s plan for sex.
Orgasm feels good, as there is no other purpose for the clitoris except sexual pleasure in a woman.
Consistent and nurtured sexual intimacy brings you closer to one another, making it easier to extend each other grace. It has so much potential to be a place tenderness, passion,
fun and even stress relief!
2. If you deny your husband sex, you are breaking God’s heart.
Having personal issues or issues within your marriage journey isn’t an excuse for you to deny sex in marriage. All you have to do is pray to God about it, go for counselling, and read christian books.
3.If you deny your husband sex, you are handing satan the keys to your marriage.
As harsh as it sounds, Satan is always bent on destroying marriages because marriage is a convenant relationship God created. And division is Satan’s go-to-tactic. (Divide husbands and wives, divide families, friends. You get the point).
When you regularly deny your husband sex, you are making it easier for your husband to fall into temptation and sin with pornography and adultery. You are watering the breeding ground for bitterness.
All i’m saying is that if a man is starving, he will be drawn to any food within his reach, even if it is food that is bad for him.
You give your marriage a better fighting chance if you stop leaving so many doors open to Satan. Having and enjoying sex with your husband helps keep the door from flying wide open.
4. If you deny your husband sex, you are hurting the man you loved.
There is always an attatched emotion to the husband when you have sex with him. It brings about more love and passion.
why on earth would you love to hurt the person you love?